“I have done both 1:1 coaching with Selena, and I'm currently in Fēmina Extraordinaire. I just felt like I needed to work with Selena. It was a feeling that didn't make any logical sense. And, it was the best thing I could have possibly done for myself. A resonant feeling is not always a logical feeling. I had so much doubt that I would fail myself again, that it might not work out, and I'd feel like a failure. But, I had a deep resonance. In my life I want to keep doing what I know I need to do in order to believe in myself. And if that means hiring a coach for the third time, then it means hiring a coach for the third time. Working with Selena was THE BEST experience. Things don't always look logical, but as we start to lean into this talk about living a self-lead life, it's truly based on resonance. If anyone is feeling the pull, I really encourage you to listen and see what that pull is all about." 

~Michelle Baird

“Selena genuinely embodies what she coaches and she attracts remarkable women who support one another. She exudes warmth, wisdom, and a deep passion for guiding people to recognize and express their unique talents.

A friend once called me a seeker, and I have spent many years looking for ways to go beyond living an average life. Through exploring different philosophies and working with numerous counselors and coaches, I made difficult decisions to pursue a life that felt right for me; yet, something was still missing. Eventually, I made another bold move by returning home to Virginia after more than three decades away, which gave me fresh insight into what I wanted from life.

Participating in Selena’s Fēmina Extraordinaire program and the Medicine Woman mastermind provided the missing link to achieving it. It may sound cliché, but the transformation that has happened in less than a year of working with her is difficult to put into words. I feel settled, at peace, and comfortable in my wholeness in a way I have never felt before. I no longer live in a state of anxiety. I stand more firmly in my wisdom and knowledge of my unique gifts.  As a further endorsement of her as a coach, I have enrolled in the 2026 program so I can continue this incredible ride toward the life I know I was meant to live. I couldn’t have made a better investment in myself." 

~Jean Cowan

“I decided to coach with Selena because I was in a rut and had lost my spark after moving. For three years I longed for new connections and purpose, and considered a life coach to help me get unstuck.  But I convinced myself I was fine and I shouldn’t need help.  Finally I grew weary of feeling just “fine.”  I attended a workshop where I met a lovely and inspiring woman who spoke highly about coaching with Selena. I decided to make the commitment to create a more fulfilling life!

I feel more fulfilled and less overwhelmed as I evaluate my core values and priorities, and refine my decision-making and time management practices.

I recommend coaching with Selena to any woman who continually browses self-help podcast, books, and Instagram quotes for motivation, but does not make progress or change.  I recommend coaching with Selena for anyone who feels their goals or problems are too big or not big enough!

Choosing to work with a coach is empowering, not a weakness!  I am so grateful for the opportunity.”

~ Sue Fielding