Fēmina Extraordinaire Manifesto
We are Fēmina Extraordinaire. We are extraordinary women.
We lead from our hearts.
We live outside of our comfort zones.
We set boundaries that allow us to be free and wild. We are unapologetically our unique selves.
We know that half of the time life is hard, and we embrace the challenge. The other half we celebrate our wins, lessons learned, and victories. We embrace the changing seasons of our lives.
We are spiritual and trusting women.
Our bodies are strong, and our minds are even stronger.
We are sexy and feminine. We are the most passionate women you will meet.
Time is our most valuable asset.
Extraordinary friendships are everything to us.
We make lots of money because we help lots of people and bring lots of value into the world.
We create opportunities for our families. We don't ask our husbands or partners for permission.
We support charities in big ways.
We know that collaboration is more abundant than competition. We believe that we rise TOGETHER.
We are risk takers, movers and shakers. We are solution focused.
We are amazing at resting, nurturing, and pausing. We live in harmony with and in awe of nature.
We are not interested in how the world defines success. We create our own standards for success. In our definitions there are no limits.
We are Fēmina Extraordinaire.
“I have done both 1:1 coaching with Selena, and I'm currently in Fēmina Extraordinaire. I just felt like I needed to work with Selena. It was a feeling that didn't make any logical sense. And, it was the best thing I could have possibly done for myself. A resonant feeling is not always a logical feeling. I had so much doubt that I would fail myself again, that it might not work out, and I'd feel like a failure. But, I had a deep resonance. In my life I want to keep doing what I know I need to do in order to believe in myself. And if that means hiring a coach for the third time, then it means hiring a coach for the third time. Working with Selena was THE BEST experience. Things don't always look logical, but as we start to lean into this talk about living a self-lead life, it's truly based on resonance. If anyone is feeling the pull, I really encourage you to listen and see what that pull is all about."
~Michelle Baird
“Selena genuinely embodies what she coaches and she attracts remarkable women who support one another. She exudes warmth, wisdom, and a deep passion for guiding people to recognize and express their unique talents.
A friend once called me a seeker, and I have spent many years looking for ways to go beyond living an average life. Through exploring different philosophies and working with numerous counselors and coaches, I made difficult decisions to pursue a life that felt right for me; yet, something was still missing. Eventually, I made another bold move by returning home to Virginia after more than three decades away, which gave me fresh insight into what I wanted from life.
Participating in Selena’s Fēmina Extraordinaire program and the Medicine Woman mastermind provided the missing link to achieving it. It may sound cliché, but the transformation that has happened in less than a year of working with her is difficult to put into words. I feel settled, at peace, and comfortable in my wholeness in a way I have never felt before. I no longer live in a state of anxiety. I stand more firmly in my wisdom and knowledge of my unique gifts. As a further endorsement of her as a coach, I have enrolled in the 2026 program so I can continue this incredible ride toward the life I know I was meant to live. I couldn’t have made a better investment in myself."
~Jean Cowan
Marine Scientist and Founder of Align Yoga
“In January of 2025 Selena offered 3 free calls for a new group, Fēmina Extraordinaire. After participating in those 3 calls, I knew this was where I needed to be. You see, at that point I was trying to recover from all the losses and heartache that took place in 2024. I knew I had to do whatever it took to become part of Fēmina Extraordinaire and It was one of the greatest things I have ever done for myself! When I started, mentally I was at a level 4 after the second month I was at a level 9! I had found my tribe! A group of strong-minded women who understood what I had been through and were there to lift me up. Thank you.
Every month I grow and learn even more about the woman that I am becoming. It is such a cliché, but Fēmina Extraordinaire and Selena saved my life. I will never be able to repay this group of ladies who have surrounded me with their love and kindness. Forever grateful.”
~ Susan Blair
Insurance Agent and Community Leader
“In my 6 months coaching with Selena I- started my very first business that has already hosted a dozen clients, shifted out a long standing victim belief and into a Victor knowing, consented again & again to be acknowledged for my wins flexing my new muscle called “receiving”, gained a new sisterhood of gorgeous souls, have been held literally & metaphorically, feel my feet on the ground similar to an innocent time before all the social conditioning, have stretched, relaxed, cried, laughed & would totally do it ALL over again! My life is a beautiful leap forward due to Selena’s care, skill & heart. Forever grateful.”
~ Amanda D'Arcy
Engineer and Founder of Serenova
“Joining Selena’s Mastermind class has been an absolute game-changer for me! The combination of group coaching sessions and personalized one-on-one guidance has truly empowered me to transform my ideas into positive and constructive actions. Selena’s expertise and encouragement have been invaluable in helping me navigate challenges and unlock my full potential. I highly recommend this class to anyone looking to turn their aspirations into reality. Thank you, Selena, for your incredible support and mentorship!”
~ Mary Haddad
President of the Mary and Lou Haddad Foundation
“As a coaching client, I have experienced exponential personal and professional growth. I have learned how to identify what I want to create in my life and with confident decision-making skills, take action (sometimes massive action!) to get the results I want. When life throws curve balls, I am better equipped to adapt and trust that things are not happening TO me, but FOR me. I have learned how to identify time leaks, stressors, and when I am indulging in negative thought patterns. Coaching has given me the confidence to connect with my inner teacher and trust that I have all the answers I need to continue to step into the best version of myself.
Being a part of The Women's Mastermind comes down to three words for me: support, accountability, and motivation. This group cheers for, cries with, and challenges each other to embrace our unique facets no matter what season of life we are experiencing. It's so wonderful to realize, "I am not alone". We need each other and I am a better person for having been a part of this exclusive group.”
~Brandy Robbins
Owner of Wildwood Yoga
“Working with Selena has been a compass for my desire to improve my current life so I may enjoy a healthier future self. While addressing all my layers that I want to change, she guides me with factual information which I implement to keep my progress on track. As I make constant choices for my positive change, I frequently share the golden nuggets of wisdom with a family of friends and have witnessed their progress as well. Reflecting regularly helps me fine tune my goals while addressing my wins and challenges. Choosing to have Selena as a life coach has been one of my smartest self-investments. I'm grateful for this rich relationship of guidance Selena offers to me consistently.”
~ Jill
Artist, Musician, Teacher
MORE CLIENT TESTIMONIALS
Sue Fielding
“I decided to coach with Selena because I was in a rut and had lost my spark after moving. For three years I longed for new connections and purpose, and considered a life coach to help me get unstuck. But I convinced myself I was fine and I shouldn’t need help. Finally I grew weary of feeling just “fine.” I attended a workshop where I met a lovely and inspiring woman who spoke highly about coaching with Selena. I decided to make the commitment to create a more fulfilling life!
I feel more fulfilled and less overwhelmed as I evaluate my core values and priorities, and refine my decision-making and time management practices.
I recommend coaching with Selena to any woman who continually browses self-help podcast, books, and Instagram quotes for motivation, but does not make progress or change. I recommend coaching with Selena for anyone who feels their goals or problems are too big or not big enough!
Choosing to work with a coach is empowering, not a weakness! I am so grateful for the opportunity.”
Kathy Keil
“ I first experienced coaching with Selena during her 2024 Mastermind program. During those months of the Mastermind, I realized the special gift that Selena has for coaching women of all ages with a wide variety of concerns. The program was invaluable to me as I learned better ways to navigate some difficult family situations. Also, during the Mastermind series, I enjoyed the group coaching experiences and the openness of sharing with one another. Recently, I began a series of private coaching with Selena. The experience was even more valuable to me as I needed a caring and gifted coach to assist me in finding the best ways to handle some big decisions I was facing.
I realized that I am stronger than I ever thought, I make good decisions, and I can depend on myself to continue to make those good decisions. Selena calmly guided me in exploring my choices and taking “authentic actions” to make decisions that are right for me. Selena certainly doesn't tell anyone what to do but opens the way for her client to find the best choices for herself. I also learned the value of journaling- it’s amazing how “writing it down” really works for me!
I would recommend coaching with Selena to any woman needing her caring guidance.”
Cynthia Corliss
"Do you want to build your confidence, grow and connect?! This is place for you! It's a wonderful opportunity to work one on one with Selena, while practicing what you're learning with the support of a small group of like-minded women. Encouragement, love and connection is truly motivating. We not only support each other but we gently challenge one another to move out of our comfort zones, where the greatest growth happens. We come from different stages of like and have each our own unique goals-from finding peace, to building a business, to gaining more confidence and self-assurance-the opportunity is there.
Meeting virtually is so convenient. No matter where you are the coaching is available. Selena is extremely reliable and timely.
Sometimes that little twinge in your stomach is telling you to get it a try! Give it a try surrounded by loving people growing together!"
Sandy Young
"The Fēmina Extraordinaire Paris Experience was an AMAZING experience! I am overflowing with gratitude to Selena for putting this EXTRAORDINARY event together. Selena put her heart and soul into creating a space where I could be bold, dream big and fall in love with myself by immersing myself in and savoring each experience along the way. Baking croissants with a Parisian chef, the photo shoot,
painting with a French artist, the exquisite food at Le Cinq (a Michelin 3-star restaurant), enjoying conversation at the many cafes – all done the Fēmina Extraordinaire way, has given me the tools that I need to dream big and savor the transitions.
I dared to dream big.
I am bold enough to go after my dreams."
