FĒMINA EXTRAORDINAIRE
ALL-ACCESS
"When women start living in TRUE feminine power, the world will change"
~ Selena Kipnis
Join the private email space where I train identity, standards, and decision-making for women who are done repeating cycles.
She came for the goal.
She left unrecognizable.
Most women hire a coach to fix one area of life... relationships, money, confidence, purpose...
But the moment she steps into Fēmina Extraordinaire, something deeper ignites.
She doesn’t just reach her goal...
she becomes the woman who realizes what she REALLY wants, and then she makes it happen with more ease and fun than she imagined possible.
Fēmina Extraordinaire is an activation of your true feminine power...the kind that touches every corner of your life...
your wealth, your relationships, your body, your peace, your expression, your connection with the Divine.
When you uncover who you REALLY are in THIS season of life, everything recalibrates... your energy, business, love life, your entire reality.
My intention isn’t to help you improve one piece of your life.
It’s to awaken the woman who was never meant to live in pieces...
The whole you.
Living your most extraordinary life.
Fēmina Extraordinaire is an activation of your TRUE feminine power.
Welcome to the Revolution.
"She runs the business, raises the kids, and still makes love like a woman who owns her time."
I’m Selena Kipnis...
I built a multiple-six-figure company working part-time, while homeschooling my daughters, traveling the world, loving my man deeper every year, and walking through every death, rebirth, and holy breakdown that shaped me into who I am now.
Some call it a midlife crisis.
I call it a Midlife Feminine Awakening.
It cracked me open, burned the old rules, and revealed a version of me that didn’t fit inside the “balanced woman” box anymore.
That awakening changed everything... my coaching, my marriage, my business, my body, my entire energy field.
Soon, powerful women started finding me.
Women who had already made it on paper, who’d done the mindset work, the therapy, the vision boards...
and still felt like something vital was missing.
They’d say,
“I don’t know exactly how, but I know you’re the one who’s going to take me where I’m meant to go.”
And then the download came...
Fēmina Extraordinaire.
An online coaching and mentorship brand that activates the woman who’s done with the “shoulds”, with the dullness of the world’s definition of success.
The one who doesn’t want to choose between success and serenity, love and leadership, sensuality and strategy, devotion and domination.
This is for the woman who desires to:
🪷 Awaken her feminine power...presence becomes her strategy.
🪷 Create success that fuels her, not drains her.
🪷 Ignite her desire and sensuality...without shame.
🪷 Deepen every relationship that matters.
🪷 Expand until peace and prosperity coexist.
🪷 Feel the things that can’t be put into words...the ones that change her forever.
This is about remembering who you were before you started dimming the light.
Welcome to Fēmina Extraordinaire.
Where women stop chasing balance…
and start embodying the extraordinary.
“I have done both 1:1 coaching with Selena, and I'm currently in Fēmina Extraordinaire. I just felt like I needed to work with Selena. It was a feeling that didn't make any logical sense. And, it was the best thing I could have possibly done for myself. A resonant feeling is not always a logical feeling. I had so much doubt that I would fail myself again, that it might not work out, and I'd feel like a failure. But, I had a deep resonance. In my life I want to keep doing what I know I need to do in order to believe in myself. And if that means hiring a coach for the third time, then it means hiring a coach for the third time. Working with Selena was THE BEST experience. Things don't always look logical, but as we start to lean into this talk about living a self-lead life, it's truly based on resonance. If anyone is feeling the pull, I really encourage you to listen and see what that pull is all about."
~Michelle Baird
Extraordinary Mother
“Selena genuinely embodies what she coaches and she attracts remarkable women who support one another. She exudes warmth, wisdom, and a deep passion for guiding people to recognize and express their unique talents.
A friend once called me a seeker, and I have spent many years looking for ways to go beyond living an average life. Through exploring different philosophies and working with numerous counselors and coaches, I made difficult decisions to pursue a life that felt right for me; yet, something was still missing. Eventually, I made another bold move by returning home to Virginia after more than three decades away, which gave me fresh insight into what I wanted from life.
Participating in Selena’s Fēmina Extraordinaire program and the Medicine Woman mastermind provided the missing link to achieving it. It may sound cliché, but the transformation that has happened in less than a year of working with her is difficult to put into words. I feel settled, at peace, and comfortable in my wholeness in a way I have never felt before. I no longer live in a state of anxiety. I stand more firmly in my wisdom and knowledge of my unique gifts. As a further endorsement of her as a coach, I have enrolled in the 2026 program so I can continue this incredible ride toward the life I know I was meant to live. I couldn’t have made a better investment in myself."
~Jean Cowan
Marine Scientist and Founder of Align Yoga
“In January of 2025 Selena offered 3 free calls for a new group, Fēmina Extraordinaire. After participating in those 3 calls, I knew this was where I needed to be. You see, at that point I was trying to recover from all the losses and heartache that took place in 2024. I knew I had to do whatever it took to become part of Fēmina Extraordinaire and It was one of the greatest things I have ever done for myself! When I started, mentally I was at a level 4 after the second month I was at a level 9! I had found my tribe! A group of strong-minded women who understood what I had been through and were there to lift me up. Thank you.
Every month I grow and learn even more about the woman that I am becoming. It is such a cliché, but Fēmina Extraordinaire and Selena saved my life. I will never be able to repay this group of ladies who have surrounded me with their love and kindness. Forever grateful.”
~ Susan Blair
Insurance Agent and Community Leader
Fēmina Extraordinaire is built on these core pillars...
1. Feminine Power
We won the fight for equality, then lost ourselves in the process.
For decades, women have been mastering the art of survival in a man’s world.
We cut our hair, toughened our tone, silenced our intuition, and called it empowerment.
We learned to play the game, and we played it well...
but the cost was our softness, our sensuality, our sacred rhythm.
We became powerful… but disconnected.
Rich… but restless.
Respected… but never truly seen.
There IS another way.
A way to rise as a woman...
not by matching masculine power, but by remembering the ancient frequency that built empires through intuition, devotion, and pleasure.
When a woman awakens her feminine power, every cell of her life reorganizes.
2. Spirit
We are not women trying to be spiritual.
We are spiritual powerhouses who chose to experience humanity.
We honor logic...
but we refuse to be ruled by it.
Because logic can get you what’s reasonable.
Spirit gives you what’s miraculous.
This is where trust and intuition lead and where divine whispers outperform ten-year business plans.
When you lean into the unseen...
the energy, the frequency, the divine intelligence pulsing through you...
life starts rearranging itself around your highest timeline.
Miracles stop being accidents.
They become your new normal.
3. Science of Human Behavior
Manifestation is magic...until you understand it’s just neuroscience in heels.
Understanding the science of human behavior is pure liberation.
Because once you know how your mind works, you stop being ruled by it.
We don’t just “think positive.”
We reprogram the patterns that kept generations of women in survival mode.
This is where a woman learns how to master her operating system.
4. Relationships
You don’t attract what you want...you attract who you are.
The quality of your life will never rise above the quality of your relationships.
And every relationship you have...romantic, familial, professional...
is simply a reflection of one thing:
your relationship with you.
You will create the kind of relationship with yourself that’s honest enough to expose your patterns and sacred enough to rewrite them.
Communication deepens. Passion reignites. Connection expands.
Extraordinary relationships aren’t built through effort...
they’re magnetized through energetic mastery, emotional intelligence, and embodied truth.
This is where you stop trying to be understood
and start being felt.
“Being a part of Fēmina Extraordinaire has been a life changing experience. It’s given me a safe place to process my emotions, goals, relationships, and things I thought were holding me back, which after talking through with Selena, I found were opportunities for self growth the entire time.
This group has helped in invaluable ways. I joined at the beginning of the year in highly different circumstances. Through listening to Selena and applying her knowledge, I am following my heart down paths I didn’t think possible before. I have learned to accept the seasons of life and not run from them, but take them on, and chose your power and thoughts while you’re at it ;) the impact of Fēmina Extraordinaire goes beyond me, but my daughter, husband, family, friends, and people I come across everyday. I now WANT to connect with people and find myself gaining life from connection when I had grown to fear it. I feel more than blessed to have seen and experienced the impact of Selena’s teachings. Selena has coached through transparency and dignity, as she has applied to her own life, and it has inspired me to use thought work to get the most out of mine.
My heart explodes for the women in the group. Hearing all the stories helped me connect emotionally and see the similarities in my own life. I see all the Fēmina Extraordinaire women like superheroes and now through applying the work I have started my own transformation, and I now feel like my own superhero. I would recommend Selena 1,000,000 times over. Take the step, do the work. Your life with surely change for the better, and you will have a group of like minded superheroes cheering you on. Feminine power is REAL and POWERFUL. Thank you isn’t enough for Selena. ”
~ Elizabeth Clark
Choreographer
“In my 6 months coaching with Selena I- started my very first business that has already hosted a dozen clients, shifted out a long standing victim belief and into a Victor knowing, consented again & again to be acknowledged for my wins flexing my new muscle called “receiving”, gained a new sisterhood of gorgeous souls, have been held literally & metaphorically, feel my feet on the ground similar to an innocent time before all the social conditioning, have stretched, relaxed, cried, laughed & would totally do it ALL over again! My life is a beautiful leap forward due to Selena’s care, skill & heart. Forever grateful.”
~ Amanda D'Arcy
Engineer and Founder of Serenova
“Joining Selena’s Mastermind class has been an absolute game-changer for me! The combination of group coaching sessions and personalized one-on-one guidance has truly empowered me to transform my ideas into positive and constructive actions. Selena’s expertise and encouragement have been invaluable in helping me navigate challenges and unlock my full potential. I highly recommend this class to anyone looking to turn their aspirations into reality. Thank you, Selena, for your incredible support and mentorship!”
~ Mary Haddad
President of the Mary and Lou Haddad Foundation
5. True Wealth
Money was never the goal. Freedom was.
A woman who can create her own wealth is dangerous in the best way.
Because money isn’t just currency...it’s choice.
And choice is power.
We go far beyond strategy, pay raises, and sales.
We don’t chase paper...we calibrate to prosperity.
We build empires that feel like home.
True wealth isn’t just about your net worth.
It’s about owning your life, your voice, your direction.
It’s walking into every room knowing you’re funded by both The Divine and your bank account.
It’s peace paid in full.
It’s freedom that can be felt.
Because the richest woman in the room isn’t the one with the most...
she’s the one who’s fully herself.
6. Self-Image
What you think of yourself isn’t a reflection...it’s a prophecy.
Your self-image quietly dictates how much love, wealth, and magic you’ll allow.
Change the way you see yourself, and change your life.
Self-Image is sacred art.
It’s not about pretending...it’s about uncovering YOU.
It’s feminine, fluid, creative, and unapologetically fun.
This is where you become the creator of your life...
from your environment, to your energy, to the way you enter a room.
It’s where identity becomes couture, where your style, surroundings, and self-concept align with your next level frequency.
You stop dressing for the role and start embodying the woman the role was written for.
7. Impact
She stopped trying to make a difference...and started becoming one.
Women feel most alive when their lives mean something.
But most were taught that impact requires exhaustion, sacrifice, and endless doing.
Not here.
We create impact from overflow, not depletion.
From joy, not hustle.
From boundaries that protect our energy, not from over-giving that drains it.
Real impact isn’t loud...it’s luminous.
It’s the mother raising world-changers at her kitchen table.
It’s the leader shifting collective consciousness with one conversation.
It’s the woman who walks into a room and the frequency rises.
You are the ripple and the revolution.
Your energy is your legacy.
When a woman is lit from within,
her very existence becomes an act of impact.
8. Self-Leadership
The moment she stopped asking for permission...everything changed.
There is a before Fēmina Extraordinaire and an after...
Before: she lived by "rules", doing what she "should", what was demonstrated, and what made sense.
It served her for a while. It built a life that looked successful on paper.
But eventually, the sound of her own truth got too loud to ignore.
After: she leads herself.
She listens when her soul whispers go.
She trusts Divine direction even when logic can’t explain it.
She walks away from expectations that were never hers to carry.
Self-leadership isn’t rebellion for rebellion’s sake.
It’s devotion to the voice within you that already knows the way.
This is the turning point.
Where the good girl dies, and the woman born for greatness finally takes the throne.
Immediate Access to These the Moment you Join...
Join the private email space where I train identity, standards, and decision-making for women who are done repeating cycles.
FĒMINA EXTRAORDINAIRE: ANNUAL ALL ACCESS
One portal. Every version of your expansion
$555/month for 12 months or a $5,555 one time payment.
She stopped piecing herself together through scattered programs...
and walked straight into All Access.
This is the full-body immersion into your most extraordinary life.
Every dimension. Every frequency. Every evolution.
You save thousands when you step in all at once...
and receive the mentorship, community, and mastery designed to hold your entire becoming.
Your All Access Experience Includes:
✨ Access to Seven BRAND NEW Signature Programs being released in 2026- Self, Style & Sanctuary…Unlocking Extraordinary Love…Decoding Thoughts, Mastering Emotions, and Rewriting Your Inner World… Awaken Your Feminine Power… Balancing Intensity with Flow in Your Time and Energy… Feminine Business & Leadership… Parenting Young to Adult Children with Power, Presence, & Grace.
✨ Monthly Live Group Coaching with Selena Kipnis- real-time mentorship and hot seat coaching that shifts you instantly into your next level.
✨ Immediate Access to 12 Masterclasses- deep, multidimensional activations covering love, power, wealth, desire, and more.
✨ Fēmina Extraordinaire Coach Certification- become the embodiment and the example.
✨ Private Community Access- where extraordinary women rise together, support one another through life challenges, and never have to explain their bigness again.
This isn't just the beginning of a new chapter...you are about to write an entirely new book.
Welcome to All Access.
“As a coaching client, I have experienced exponential personal and professional growth. I have learned how to identify what I want to create in my life and with confident decision-making skills, take action (sometimes massive action!) to get the results I want. When life throws curve balls, I am better equipped to adapt and trust that things are not happening TO me, but FOR me. I have learned how to identify time leaks, stressors, and when I am indulging in negative thought patterns. Coaching has given me the confidence to connect with my inner teacher and trust that I have all the answers I need to continue to step into the best version of myself.
Being a part of The Women's Mastermind comes down to three words for me: support, accountability, and motivation. This group cheers for, cries with, and challenges each other to embrace our unique facets no matter what season of life we are experiencing. It's so wonderful to realize, "I am not alone". We need each other and I am a better person for having been a part of this exclusive group.”
~Brandy Robbins
Owner of Wildwood Yoga
“Working with Selena has been a compass for my desire to improve my current life so I may enjoy a healthier future self. While addressing all my layers that I want to change, she guides me with factual information which I implement to keep my progress on track. As I make constant choices for my positive change, I frequently share the golden nuggets of wisdom with a family of friends and have witnessed their progress as well. Reflecting regularly helps me fine tune my goals while addressing my wins and challenges. Choosing to have Selena as a life coach has been one of my smartest self-investments. I'm grateful for this rich relationship of guidance Selena offers to me consistently.”
~ Jill
Artist, Musician, Teacher
“I decided to coach with Selena because I was in a rut and had lost my spark after moving. For three years I longed for new connections and purpose, and considered a life coach to help me get unstuck. But I convinced myself I was fine and I shouldn’t need help. Finally I grew weary of feeling just “fine.” I attended a workshop where I met a lovely and inspiring woman who spoke highly about coaching with Selena. I decided to make the commitment to create a more fulfilling life!
I feel more fulfilled and less overwhelmed as I evaluate my core values and priorities, and refine my decision-making and time management practices.
I recommend coaching with Selena to any woman who continually browses self-help podcast, books, and Instagram quotes for motivation, but does not make progress or change. I recommend coaching with Selena for anyone who feels their goals or problems are too big or not big enough!
Choosing to work with a coach is empowering, not a weakness! I am so grateful for the opportunity.”
~ Sue Fielding
“ I first experienced coaching with Selena during her 2024 Mastermind program. During those months of the Mastermind, I realized the special gift that Selena has for coaching women of all ages with a wide variety of concerns. The program was invaluable to me as I learned better ways to navigate some difficult family situations. Also, during the Mastermind series, I enjoyed the group coaching experiences and the openness of sharing with one another. Recently, I began a series of private coaching with Selena. The experience was even more valuable to me as I needed a caring and gifted coach to assist me in finding the best ways to handle some big decisions I was facing.
I realized that I am stronger than I ever thought, I make good decisions, and I can depend on myself to continue to make those good decisions. Selena calmly guided me in exploring my choices and taking “authentic actions” to make decisions that are right for me. Selena certainly doesn't tell anyone what to do but opens the way for her client to find the best choices for herself. I also learned the value of journaling- it’s amazing how “writing it down” really works for me!
I would recommend coaching with Selena to any woman needing her caring guidance.”
~ Kathy Keil
"Do you want to build your confidence, grow and connect?! This is place for you! It's a wonderful opportunity to work one on one with Selena, while practicing what you're learning with the support of a small group of like-minded women. Encouragement, love and connection is truly motivating. We not only support each other but we gently challenge one another to move out of our comfort zones, where the greatest growth happens. We come from different stages of like and have each our own unique goals-from finding peace, to building a business, to gaining more confidence and self-assurance-the opportunity is there.
Meeting virtually is so convenient. No matter where you are the coaching is available. Selena is extremely reliable and timely.
Sometimes that little twinge in your stomach is telling you to get it a try! Give it a try surrounded by loving people growing together!"
~ Cynthia Corliss
"The Fēmina Extraordinaire Paris Experience was an AMAZING experience! I am overflowing with gratitude to Selena for putting this EXTRAORDINARY event together. Selena put her heart and soul into creating a space where I could be bold, dream big and fall in love with myself by immersing myself in and savoring each experience along the way. Baking croissants with a Parisian chef, the photo shoot,
painting with a French artist, the exquisite food at Le Cinq (a Michelin 3-star restaurant), enjoying conversation at the many cafes – all done the FēminaExtraordinaire way, has given me the tools that I need to dream big and savor the transitions.
I dared to dream big.
I am bold enough to go after my dreams."
~ Sandy Young
Fēmina Extraordinaire Manifesto
We are Fēmina Extraordinaire. We are extraordinary women.
We lead from our hearts.
We live outside of our comfort zones.
We set boundaries that allow us to be free and wild. We are unapologetically our unique selves.
We know that half of the time life is hard, and we embrace the challenge. The other half we celebrate our wins, lessons learned, and victories. We embrace the changing seasons of our lives.
We are spiritual and trusting women.
Our bodies are strong, and our minds are even stronger.
We are sexy and feminine. We are the most passionate women you will meet.
Time is our most valuable asset.
Extraordinary friendships are everything to us.
We make lots of money because we help lots of people and bring lots of value into the world.
We create opportunities for our families. We don't ask our husbands or partners for permission.
We support charities in big ways.
We know that collaboration is more abundant than competition. We believe that we rise TOGETHER.
We are risk takers, movers and shakers. We are solution focused.
We are amazing at resting, nurturing, and pausing. We live in harmony with and in awe of nature.
We are not interested in how the world defines success. We create our own standards for success. In our definitions there are no limits.
